LEAD supports our community during this time of great loss. We hope you find the below guide and linked resources helpful in promoting discussion between you and your family about life, loss, and grief.

Talking To Adolescents About Death

A Short Guide for Parents

For many adults, talking about death is difficult. When we speak to our own teenagers about the death of a peer, family member or teacher, it can be
even harder.

How And What To Tell Them?
It's best to tell the truth.

Provide accurate information about the death and the circumstances surrounding it. Be as truthful as possible about the facts. Remember, teens cognitively understand the nature of death as adults do. Respect their knowledge and developmental stage. You don't have to give all the details, but ask the adolescents if they have any questions. If they do, answer the questions to the best of your ability.

Today, teens face many challenges that can lead to depression and sometimes suicide. LEAD is committed to helping families prevent risky behavior among adolescents. Below are some signs and symptoms of depression to look for if you are concerned about your son or daughter.

The Upscale Rummage Sale was a grand success and proceeds will benefit LEAD's programs to empower parents and families. LEAD is grateful for the support of so many people who donated items, volunteered their time and shopped!

On November 9, 2011, a panel of experts spoke to 130 parents and teens at Lake Forest High School. "Street Smarts: Parents, Teens and the Law" is an annual program that addresses alcohol and substance abuse and other useful information to help your teen navigate through the challenging high school years. Panelists included: Betty Frank-Bailey, Executive Director of LEAD and Speak Up! Prevention Coalition; Frank Lesniak, Lake Forest High School Dean; Samantha Welch, a survivor of a drunk driving crash: and Honorable Christopher Stride, Associate Circuit Judge, Nineteenth Judicial Circuit Court of Lake County.

Within our own community, nearly 3,000 people eagerly gathered in sold-out venues organized by LEAD to see this remarkable documentary that shines a light on the pressures faced by our children in a system and culture obsessed with achievement, competition, and the pressure to perform. Here are some additional screenings in the Chicago area: Race to Nowhere IL Screenings

Videos: "Race To Nowhere" 2011 Community Discussion

End the Race Community Discussion as a follow-up to the film, "Race To Nowhere"

This panel discussion examines the roles of parents and adult mentors in our community who influence our children and play a role in their social and emotional development. It was held on January 21, 2011 at Gorton Community Center in Lake Forest.

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Some kids are practicing the unbelievable and dangerous "game" of choking or fainting. BE AWARE, LEARN more (CLICK HERE to watch a video), and MONITOR your kids behavior. Don't assume your child is too young.

Who's "playing" the choking game?

Mostly boys and girls between 9-16 years old, nationwide and around the world. These adolescents are generally high-achieving in academics, activities and sports, and don't want to risk getting caught with drug or alcohol. Source: G.A.S.P

G.A.S.P. VIDEO-CLICK HERE- A "must see" for parents to understand the risk

We bring you this video not to alarm but to share important information. The video is graphic, yet may be appropriate to view with your child as a powerful way to convey the risk. Watch it first and decide.

For "talking tips" about the risks of drug and alcohol use...Click Here

Parents, talk to your child, in an age appropriate way, about why drugs are dangerous and why you want your kids to remain alcohol and drug-free. Share your values! Parents are the most powerful influence in their children's lives. Let the Conversations Begin!